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Dear ‘Post- Baby Weight-loss’ Time Keepers! Weh-Done!

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So, today I came across a post on Instagram by a mummy blogger @judgejudyjudy. She usually posts happy videos/pictures of some of her fun routines as a mum… from yummy recipes, shopping, to even the hustle of job hunting. I find her quite unique… she is raw and I find her live videos very interesting. Anyway, in her typical manner, she posted some pictures of her happy self today… below is the ‘foolishness’ someone decided to display on social media…

Judith

First of all, this lady had her second son barely 6 months ago… 6 freaking months ago!!!  I applaud her for applying restraint in her response to this insensitive woman. From the comments on the picture, I gather that this ‘weight loss time keeper’ is actually a mother who should know the struggle we have to face, after pregnancy takes it’s toll on our bodies. My second son is 2yrs+ and I am still yet to attain my desired weight… how dare you give a woman with a 6 month old grief about her weight! Is it your fat? is she your sister? why so interested? are you a ‘winch’?… Like just step the hell back with your need to have an opinion on the weight of a woman who just had a baby.. she may even still be nursing… step the hell back!! Nonsense!!

Now, don’t get me wrong… staying healthy is paramount, and anyone who decides to ignore that is being ‘silly’… however, such insensitive remarks make some women choose not to procreate… some do not eat right post baby, thereby tampering with the supply of healthy breastmilk to the baby. My mum always told me while I nursed my kids.. “Nina, I’m not saying you should eat for ‘two’.. but you must eat enough for ‘one’… VERY ENOUGH”… so ‘biko’ free us!

Also! your weight does not express how healthy you are… I can easily say I’m currently the healthiest I’ve been in my entire adult life. I watch what I eat, I work out, I’m on top of my vitamins, i drink A LOT of water… but, I’m definitely not the skinniest I’ve been in my adult life… when I embarked on crash diets, starvation and swallowing all those weight-loss pills. Biko, no energy… I am happy that I can now eat right… and eat well.

Soooo, to all you time keepers, lurking around… trying to help count our calorie intake and fat increase… I say, take that opinion and stick it wayyyyyyyyyyyy up your behind. We no need am.. we no want am… The END!

 

Like I always say… do not stay trapped in the norm, unleash your alter ego today!!

 

Love,

 

Evezboudoir.

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    Aleruchi Okam

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    Weldone Nina! Wow!! I can soooo relate with this post as this incident happened to me sometime in February when my hubby posted and tagged me to our family portrait on his wall, only for someone to go there and write something very insensitive or was it when I made a video call with a very dear friend last year and this is just few months after having my baby, and all she kept focusing on was my weight, how fat my face was and all, I tried to tell her that babe I’ve just had a baby, I’m not like you with supper woman genes.. but she wouldn’t bulge, the one that got me alarmed was when she asked me if my husband wasn’t mad at my weight gain, that her husband would be mad at her if she ever blew up like that.. and I was like How??? See me see wahala oo..! All of this remarks made me hold back putting up my pictures on fcbk, I jejely migrated to Instagram where I had less friends on my list. A lot of people think they love your body more than you the owner. People should learn to speak with a pinch of salt. Weldone dear! Keep it up! X

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      EvezBoudoir

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      Thanks so much love… Congratulations on your bundle of joy!!! Which in my opinion is farrrrr more important!

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    Wariku

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    Insensitive is the word here. People care less about how you feel when they make those hurting statements; I’ve also resolved to dishing back to them as hot as they serve me! The crave for this “post baby instant banging body” is something else. No time for people’s unsolicited advice. It took more than 9 months to put on that weight for those of us that had back-to-back babies, so no hurry in shedding them off !

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      EvezBoudoir

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      Spot On Babe!!!

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