Turning 30 made me reflect on so many things. One key aspect I decided to work on is ‘Treating People How I Wish To Be Treated’. I realize I could be somewhat nonchalant towards relationships I value deeply. I find that I hardly keep in-touch. I may have those special people in my heart and prayers, but have failed in actually communicating enough to let them know how special they are. On many occasions I find myself apologizing or trying to explain myself…. Long silence could spark assumptions and destroy relationships. When you have an incredible support system, and you totally ignore them when they are eager to express love…. you fail!
In my 30 years on earth, I have certainly experienced a lot! Love gone wrong, friendships gone wrong, businesses/Investments gone wrong… Just to name a few. There’s also the positive end of things…. Amazing marriage, absolutely beautiful sons, spiritual growth, fulfilling career, phenomenal friends (who have become sisters/brothers), and even a more phenomenal family. I never like to get too personal on my blog, but today! Well, I guess i’ve gotten to a very comfortable point in my life where I can thoroughly embrace my imperfections and mistakes, even as I celebrate where God has brought me and where he is taking me.